Wow, Wayne and I did not forsee just how technically challenged we are. Up loading our video's have turned into a nightmare. YouTube only allows for video's no longer than 10 minutes and trust me our video's are longer than that. Goggle video has stopped allowing uploads, so now we are trying to upload the video's and embedding them, put blogspot does not allow for just any upload. We are still working on it and hope we can figure it out soon.
Please stay patient with us. I am sure our grandson of 12 could come over and upload these to the blog in a second, put this is not a subject we want to share with him at this time. I'm sure you understand this. So in the mean time, we are going to start posting typed messages until we get this all figured out.
Thank You and God Bless
Wayne and Kate
Friday, April 23, 2010
Saturday, April 3, 2010
VIDEO'S COMING SOON
Wayne and I have made a decision to open up our lifes through video. We are now going to be video blogging.
When I first found out about Wayne's betrayals I wanted to run and hide, I didn't want anyone to know what he had done to me. It seems everyone feels this way as the shame, guilt and embarrasment is so extreme we do not want others to find out about the betrayals and we really don't want others to know who we are so we live with it in private, in secret and alone. Reality has shown we are not alone, there are so many going through this pain, so Wayne and I have chosen to put our faces out there, real people, not typed words on a computer screen.
My heart is broken for Elin Woods and Sandra Bullock, how the media has taken their pain and turned it into what ever will create rating for their show. I can not imagine how it would feel to have your life and pain splashed all over the television screen daily. Than there are the other women, who seem to not care at all about the pain and damage they have helped to create in the lifes of these women and their families, instead wanting their 15 minutes of fame. Shame on the media for giving these women even 1 second of aire time and now magazine articles. Shame on the companies who hire these women, like Spitzers ex call girl, giving her a job on relationship advice. Why have these women been rewarded for their horribly bad behavior. This is just discusting to me.
Because of this, Wayne and I have decided that putting our faces out there and being real people to this real issue and the damage it has done to both of us, the pain it has truly created and the extremely hard work it takes to repair the damage, to heal from the most devasting pain a person can bare,is important.
SO KEEP COMING BACK, BECAUSE WE ARE GOING TO BE POSTING OUR FIRST VIDEO IN THE NEXT COUPLE OF DAYS, WE ARE ALSO GOING TO BE POSTING VIDEO'S ON UTUBE UNDER SEX ADDICTION. PRAY FOR US TO DO GODS WILL AND THAT WE SHOW HIS GRACE AND WISDOM AS WE OPEN UP OUR LIFES.
If you have any questions you would like us to answer, please email us at healingafterinfidelity@yahoo.com and we will gladly respond via email and through our video blog.
God Bless You All, remembering YOU ARE NOT ALONE:
Kate
When I first found out about Wayne's betrayals I wanted to run and hide, I didn't want anyone to know what he had done to me. It seems everyone feels this way as the shame, guilt and embarrasment is so extreme we do not want others to find out about the betrayals and we really don't want others to know who we are so we live with it in private, in secret and alone. Reality has shown we are not alone, there are so many going through this pain, so Wayne and I have chosen to put our faces out there, real people, not typed words on a computer screen.
My heart is broken for Elin Woods and Sandra Bullock, how the media has taken their pain and turned it into what ever will create rating for their show. I can not imagine how it would feel to have your life and pain splashed all over the television screen daily. Than there are the other women, who seem to not care at all about the pain and damage they have helped to create in the lifes of these women and their families, instead wanting their 15 minutes of fame. Shame on the media for giving these women even 1 second of aire time and now magazine articles. Shame on the companies who hire these women, like Spitzers ex call girl, giving her a job on relationship advice. Why have these women been rewarded for their horribly bad behavior. This is just discusting to me.
Because of this, Wayne and I have decided that putting our faces out there and being real people to this real issue and the damage it has done to both of us, the pain it has truly created and the extremely hard work it takes to repair the damage, to heal from the most devasting pain a person can bare,is important.
SO KEEP COMING BACK, BECAUSE WE ARE GOING TO BE POSTING OUR FIRST VIDEO IN THE NEXT COUPLE OF DAYS, WE ARE ALSO GOING TO BE POSTING VIDEO'S ON UTUBE UNDER SEX ADDICTION. PRAY FOR US TO DO GODS WILL AND THAT WE SHOW HIS GRACE AND WISDOM AS WE OPEN UP OUR LIFES.
If you have any questions you would like us to answer, please email us at healingafterinfidelity@yahoo.com and we will gladly respond via email and through our video blog.
God Bless You All, remembering YOU ARE NOT ALONE:
Kate
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Dr. Oz Show
To Everyone who follows my blog in New York.
I will be in New York from March 16th through the 21st and I would love to meet and visit with anyone who would like to meet up. I will be taking my laptop with me and will be checking any posting here, so if you would like to meet me and my husband while we are there, we would love to meet with you.
Just leave a comment here and we can figure out a way to get in contact.
We will be taping a show on sex addiction with Dr. Oz on Tuesday, the 15th, as guest speakers. So if you are interested please feel free to comment.
God Bless You All
Kate
I will be in New York from March 16th through the 21st and I would love to meet and visit with anyone who would like to meet up. I will be taking my laptop with me and will be checking any posting here, so if you would like to meet me and my husband while we are there, we would love to meet with you.
Just leave a comment here and we can figure out a way to get in contact.
We will be taping a show on sex addiction with Dr. Oz on Tuesday, the 15th, as guest speakers. So if you are interested please feel free to comment.
God Bless You All
Kate
Monday, March 8, 2010
LESSON
They say "you'll never make it"
And they thought that they were right.
But I kept on plodding onward
Because I hoped "I might."
They shook their heads in wonder
That I lacked the sense to quit
But I held my chin up higher
And didn't mind a bit.
They said "you'll never make it."
As the problems multipled
But I had to make an effort
And know at least I tried.
So I dug my heels in deeper
Though sometimes my Spirt lagged
And I shouldered what was lightest
And the rest I sort of dragged.
I found to my amazement
At the ending of the day
That what they said "I Couldn't"
I had managed anyway.
It only took three little words
"Lord help me" and I rid
Myself of doubt, and all they said
"I'd never do, I DID."
Kate
And they thought that they were right.
But I kept on plodding onward
Because I hoped "I might."
They shook their heads in wonder
That I lacked the sense to quit
But I held my chin up higher
And didn't mind a bit.
They said "you'll never make it."
As the problems multipled
But I had to make an effort
And know at least I tried.
So I dug my heels in deeper
Though sometimes my Spirt lagged
And I shouldered what was lightest
And the rest I sort of dragged.
I found to my amazement
At the ending of the day
That what they said "I Couldn't"
I had managed anyway.
It only took three little words
"Lord help me" and I rid
Myself of doubt, and all they said
"I'd never do, I DID."
Kate
Thursday, February 11, 2010
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