Tuesday, September 30, 2008

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

The most excruciating pain you could ever imagine just happened to you. You just discovered that your spouse, husband/wife had been cheating on you. The relationship you once thought you had, is now gone. Your emotions are running out of control.

What are you going to do? Fear begins to over take you, your suddenly afraid your losing everything you worked, sacrificed for. Suddenly your whole world and if you have children, their world to, is turned upside down.

Who you thought you were, you know longer recognize and the one you love and gave your life to, is a stranger. The pain becomes so extreme at times you just can't bare it.

Who do you tell? Who would you run to? What if you tell someone and they judge you, suddenly what your spouse has done is your fault? What do you do when you feel like the pain is never going to end? Who do you trust?

What if you know but your spouse doesn't confess? Or they do confess but won't talk to you, won't answer your questions, or worse yet, blames you? Do you call the other woman/man?

How do you ever respect your spouse again? Can you ever trust or respect them again? Do you separate, file for divorce or stay? What do you do to heal from such devastation? Do you know, what you would do?